17 Things Men REALLY Want Women To Do More Of In Bed
FYI, ladies…
They might not always say what they want in bed, but I guarantee you, some of the things that turn guys are dirty.
I spoke to five different men, many of which claimed a real love for a good woman during the day and is more of a bad girl in bed. You know the saying, “Lady on the streets, freak in the sheets.” As contradictory as it sounds, the men want you to know when to “turn it on,” and some of their secret requests are as freaky as you expected; others are a lot more “mild” than perhaps you’ve been fearing.
Here are 17 dirty things guys want you to do during sex.
1. Talk dirty
While one gentleman requested that his woman be clear of what she wants in bed but not necessarily filthy, most guys unanimously requested that you talk dirty in bed. Now is not the time to be shy. If you want something specific, by all means, let him know.
2. Butt play
Ass play is worth fingering, I mean… figuring out. Your partner would love to play with your ass. From analingus to a nice finger in your butt, guys want some anal play. Let him lick you there, finger, but whatever happens, enjoy it. Ask for it.
3. Anal sex
Whatever it is about that butt, guys can’t get enough of it. Please, bend over. Everyone surveyed promises to lube up and be gentle.
4. Butt play… on him
Ask first, but he’d like his butt to be played with, too. A gentle finger feels good. Be brave, woman!
5. Wear heels and stockings
Keep the heels on and stockings, too. Lingerie is a must, not an option. This, ladies, is an easy one to fulfill. Pro tip? Don’t whine about how the garters bother you. A guy says, “If they bother her, don’t wear them then. I don’t want to hear complaints.” So, wear them and own it!
6. Send naughty pictures
Please make those selfies nude and please make them sexy. Please send them to him and tell him exactly what you plan on doing to him when you see him later… in lurid and vivid detail.
7. Have a threesome
A wise man I surveyed said, “Look, don’t ask a lady for a threesome unless you know she’s bi or intrigued on the idea itself. Otherwise, you’re just a jerk.” Still, that didn’t stop him from saying a threesome is one move in bed he’d love to enjoy with you. This means, though, that you need to enjoy that girl-on-girl interaction. And engage in a little.