3 Things Men Want More Than Sex
Men aren’t the most talkative bunch sometimes, so it can be hard to figure out exactly what men want from you in a relationship. And contrary to popular belief, they cannot just live on the love they receive through sex, but rather have important emotional needs that are just as important as feeling physical affection. If you’re looking for a way to tell your man, “I love you,” that goes beyond outward intimate gestures, there are some important relationship goals you should be aiming for.
You might think men want nothing more than sex. While it is certainly often in their minds, there are actually three big things that are more valuable to men than sex.
In order for a man to fall in love with you, he will look for these three things from you, possibly without either of you even realizing it.
With that in mind, here are the three things men want more than sex. I hope these will inspire you to understand the men you date and what men really want when they fall in love with you.
Here are 3 things that men want that are even more important to them than sex:
Men want acceptance for who they are right now. Not, who they are going to be in five or ten years but for who they are in this moment. We all want acceptance but, for men, it is the cornerstone of any long-term relationship. A man knows that if you do not like his job, his friends, the way he spends his free time, etc. that in the long run, he will have no chance with you.
There’s a long-standing joke that when a man sees his woman as she’s walking down the aisle, he says “She’s amazing I hope she never changes.”
When a woman sees her man as she’s walking down the aisle, she says to herself, “I can change him.”
There’s a lot of truth in this joke. Men don’t change. If you can accept that, you’re on your way to really have a great man for the rest of your life. Because you already truly like him the way he is.
Most good men follow a very simple equation. When you appreciate what they already do, they will do more.
Men fall in love when they give. They are literally looking for ways to give to you. However, if they get the impression that you don’t appreciate it, or they can’t make you happy, they will give up.
Appreciating what he already does may be very hard for you to do. Because, frankly, some men don’t do much. However, if you can simply start by appreciating the little things they already do, I assure you they will do more, and thank you for it!