8 Male Erogenous Zones You’re Probably Ignoring During Sex
Plus, how to stimulate his most sensitive spots for a more intense orgasm.
It’s no secret that women have some very specific pleasure points on their body, and hopefully, your guy is no stranger to the clitoris and G-spot. Yet you might be surprised to know that the male body also has particular erogenous zones, or trigger spots, that—when stimulated—will make his orgasms more powerful and your sex life better than ever.
“Orgasm is the release of sexual tension, and tension is created through gradually increasing and varying touch and pressure on his passion points,” says Claire Cavanah, cofounder of Babeland, a national chain of women-owned sex shops, and coauthor of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex and Sex Toys 101. “Licking and biting with your mouth, then adding in heat or cold sensations by sucking on an ice cube or drinking hot tea will drive him wild.” To find out where to touch him to make his toes curl, click through our hot list.
Erogenous Zone #1: The F Spot
How to find it: The frenulum is the spot where the glans meets the shaft on the underside of the penis just below the head, and the concentration of nerve endings here is sometimes compared to the female equivalent of the clitoris.
Make him go wild: “When giving him oral sex, let your tongue slide over that area,” Cavanah says. “With your hands, stroke it with your thumb while you move your fingers around the shaft.” To slowly build his arousal, go back and forth between stimulating his F spot and the less sensitive base of his penis.
Erogenous Zone #2: Soles of His Feet
How to find it: “Men have a relatively higher concentration of nerve endings in the soles of their feet than women do,” says Mark Michaels, coauthor of Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love. “There is an acupressure point about one-third of the way down from the third toe, right in front of the arch in the center of the foot.” Pressing on this point, nicknamed the “bubbling spring,” may boost blood flow throughout the body, getting him all hot and bothered.
Make him go wild: Start your foreplay by giving him a foot massage: Have a warm towel ready and then place his feet on a pillow on your lap. Use the warm towel to wipe his feet and get them warm, and then focus on this erogenous zone by taking your thumb and gently rubbing it around this spot as a transition to a more erotic kind of rubdown.