Guys Reveal the Secrets to Giving Women Multiple Orgasms
Because why stop at just one?
Men, listen up: Women enjoy orgasms just as much as you do. And if you have the power to give them multiple, why skimp with just one? It may seem like a complicated task, but if you find out what makes your partner feel good (hint: learn all about the clitoris), you can give her mind-blowing orgasms, one right after the other.
While it’s always a good idea to get sex tips from the experts, it’s also helpful to see what real guys out there are doing to please their partners in bed. So, we asked them! Here’s what a few guys have to say about giving their partners multiple orgasms, consistently.
Pay attention to breathing and intensity
“I probably focus 95% of my effort on her until she has climaxed at least once. The change of pace, the longevity, and position I’ll contribute to multiple orgasms. I’m paying close attention to her breathing and intensity. Quick changes or even a slight ones at the wrong moment can put a damper, however the right change at the right time can drive intensity or double or triple her up.” —Adam
Bring vibrators into the bedroom
“While we always have a good time without toys too, she always gets multiple orgasms when I uses a vibrator on her clit because it’s a more intense feeling. And well do that when I am inside her too so she gets that extra stimulation. Sometimes she will use it on herself too which I think is super hot and sexy to watch.” —Mike*
Have some fun with dirty talk
“Some tips for giving your partner multiple organs are dirty talk before foreplay even begins. I like to get my partner mentally excited before even initiating touching. About two-thirds of sex (and orgasms!) is a mental process. I get my partner excited with dirty talk sometimes before touching or some very gentle touching detailing to her what I’m thinking about doing with her (and saying what I will do whether this happens or not). I think the trick to giving my partner multiple orgasms is to get her excited before touching begins, have the touching amplify her excitement, giving her an orgasm before even getting myself undressed, oral stimulation and finally sex.” —Sean
Listen to their cues
“If my girl moans really loud or sweats and breathes heavily when I’m doing something she likes, I know that I should keep doing it. She also might say ‘keep going’ or something like that and so the worst thing would be to stop. DON’T BE THAT GUY. Keep doing it and then do it again and again.” —Mark
Go for the clit
“You can’t just stick it in and think you’re all good. She wants more. I notice my girlfriend always comes right away when I’m in her and I start rubbing her clit and massaging. You also have to give some harder pressure so she really feels it and then listen to how she reacts. She might say ‘harder’ or ‘more,’ but usually she just moans and is into it. I do this a few times during sex so she gets multiple.” —Joe*
Use lots and lots of lube
“I’ve noticed they really like lube because it makes it smoother and wetter and more easy to come. We reapply lube a few times, and that—with the combo of playing with her clit while inside her—together leads to several orgasms during sex. If it gets dry, then orgasms stop, so lube prevents that.” —Paul
Nibble all over during sex
“No matter what position we’re in, if there’s nibbling going on, then they orgasm. I like to nibble on ears, the neck, nipples (or maybe lick them), and so that with sex itself always work for us. She gets a few orgasms in when I change it up, so like, I do ears with sex for one, and then I do neck with sex for another.” —Greg *