Here’s How to Spice Up Missionary Sex
We asked guys for their best advice, and they did not disappoint.
Missionary is a pretty easy position to master, and it’s great for building intimacy in relationships, as you’re both so close together. However, let’s be real — it can get a bit boring. When compared to more adventurous sex positions, missionary may seem like a less desirable choice.
However, with the right tweaks, you can take this classic sex position up a notch and make it wild and intense for both of you. Here, real men share their greatest tips for spicing up missionary for some unbelievable orgasms. (And guys: Remember to get consent from your partner before trying any of the moves on this list.)
Incorporate a penis ring
“I like to bring in cock rings that vibrate when in missionary to give some extra vibration and make it better for both of us. As you go deeper in, there’s more tension on the penis, and it hits her G-spot, so she has more sensation there. I can also use it to stimulate her clit during sex while I get some vibrations, too.” —John
Use a pillow
“If I put a pillow under her butt, it changes the angle and makes the position hotter and more intense for us.” —Jake*
Ask your partner if there’s a particular angle that feels best for her.
“Most guys don’t think of angling, but every girl has two or three angles in particular that really work more so than others. So spend time finding them and give those attention.” —James*
Wrap her legs and hold her wrists
“Give her some control by wrapping her legs around your body. She can then decide how and how hard you move. Not only that, but it will give you a better workout if you’re teasing her by resisting her pulling you in. Take both of her arms and raise them above her head. Hold onto them with one hand — [then] you have your other hand free to use. ” —Robert